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š Maria Mojo (Sunday!) Edition: āMy Back Was Talkinā - And I Listenedā
A Yellowās guide to navigating pain, presence, and staying sparkly through the setbacks.
Hey Mindset Maverick,
This weekās newsletter is coming to you a day early for a reasonā¦
Because Iāve got a free webinar happening tomorrow (š more on that below)ā¦
And because I wanted to show up authentically in real time ā and share a little truthbomb from my own healing journey.
š¬ The Back-Tweak That Showed Up Uninvitedā¦
So hereās the deal.
A few days ago, while prepping for my next webinar and feelinā that high-vibe groove, my lower back decided to throw a little tantrum. A tweak. A twinge.
One of those annoying little āsurprisesā that shows up out of nowhere that makes you say:
āSeriously? Now??ā
I couldnāt sleep on my side. I had to change how I got out of bed. Even walking first thing in the morning took extra care and cushion (thank you, Glycerin 22s!). It wasnāt dramatic. It wasnāt dire.
But it was loud enough to get my attention.
And for someone like me ā a Color Code YELLOW, who lives for freedom, flow, movement, and joy ā this kind of physical limitation can feel like an existential crisis. š
š The Real Struggle? Not the Back. The Story.
The hardest part wasnāt the discomfort.
It was the inner dialogue that came with it.
āWhy is this taking so long to heal?ā
āI canāt stop my daily walking routine!ā
āMy tight neck fascia and now this - WTF?!ā
āNone of my topical creams seem to be healing it quickly.ā
āWhy NOW when I have to be sitting at the computer more?ā
Sound familiar?
We all hit bumps in the road ā physically, emotionally, energetically. But what makes or breaks us is how we respond, and the stories we tell ourselves about what it means.
I caught myself spiraling into what-if down mode ā and then flipped the script.
š§āāļø What Helped Me Recenter
I went into my own coaching toolkit.
I used one of my custom meditations (the same kind I make for my clients) to soothe my nervous system and calm my thoughts.
I told myself:
āI am in the process of healing.ā
āThis is just temporary.ā
āIām a lean, mean, healinā machine!ā
I NPAād (a special meditation technique I use) some emotionally charged thoughts - some that were just sounds of frustration, some which were the energy that I was feeling that I wanted to release - and that did the trick to pivot to a peaceful, grounded energy and an attitude of āIāve got this!ā
I shifted from trying to āfigure it outā to just being with it.
Because thatās the thing with our bodies ā they donāt run on panic, pressure, or perfection.
They heal in presence.
š Coaching Corner:
What to Do When Your Mojo Feels Off
Here are a few things I remind myself ā and now you ā when your body (or life) throws you a curveball:
⨠1. Donāt assume this is forever.
Pain and setbacks love to trick you into future catastrophizing. Stay grounded in this moment. Ask: āWhat do I need right now?ā
⨠2. Your frustration is valid⦠and also data.
If youāre a YELLOW (like me), a RED, or anyone who values freedom and forward momentum ā physical limitations hit hard. Itās not just about the back pain. Itās about the loss of autonomy and the lightness of heart and ease in my daily vibration.
Knowing that helps you treat yourself with compassion.
⨠3. Healing is not linear ā and thatās okay.
There will be days when you feel amazing and days when it regresses. That doesnāt mean youāre doing anything wrong. It means youāre human.
š Your Body Is Talking. Are You Listening?
This back tweak showed up at a time when I was gearing up to deliver something amazing (hello, webinar prep!).
It forced me to slow down, check in, and treat my own healing like the sacred work it is.
I didnāt cancel anything.
I didnāt collapse into the drama.
I adjusted. I grounded. I stayed in it.
Thatās the work.
Thatās the mindset.
Thatās the magic.
š„ Now, A little promo for this webinar on Monday?
Join Me LIVE!
š¤ Free Webinar: āAuthenticity at Work: Using your Color Code to Ace Interviews!ā
š
Monday, September 15th @ 11:30am PT
š Tailored for LGBTQ+ professionals, but ALL allies are welcome!
Weāll talk about:
How to show up as your most confident, authentic self in interviews
Why your Color Code personality can make or break how you communicate
And how to ditch the second-guessing and stand in your full power
(And yes, Iāll be showing up with my mojo intact ā even if my fasciaās still a little cranky. š)
šŖMojo Mirror Prompt
āWhat story am I telling myself about this challenge ā
and is it helping me heal or keeping me feeling stuck?ā
š¬ Over to You
Have you ever had a time when your body forced you to slow down?
When your frustration was more emotional than physical?
When you felt off ā but found your way back?
Hit reply. Or DM me. Iād love to hear how YOU navigate this kind of thing ā especially if youāre a fellow Yellow who hates feeling stuck. š
Youāre not broken. Youāre just healing.
And your spark? Itās still there.
Letās keep that mojo flowing ā no matter what the fascia says.
Lovinā Life (even with a heating pad),
~ Maria Lesetz š
Your Mindset & Resilience Coach