Maria Mojo Mondays: Quit Obsessing Over the How

Hey, Mindset Maverick!

You’ve been there, right? Sitting there, spinning your wheels, trying to figure out how it’s going to happen. How you’ll get that promotion. How you’ll finally start that business. How you’ll attract the right clients or the right relationship. How you’ll find your “calling” and what lights you up on the inside.

Here’s the truth: obsessing over the how is a trap.

You don’t need to know the exact steps. You don’t need the perfect plan. You don’t even need to see the whole path ahead.

Why? Because the universe (or life, or your mojo) doesn’t operate like a spreadsheet. It operates like energy.

And your job isn’t figuring out the HOW. Your job is aligning with the energy of having what you want.

💡 Think about it:

When you’re already feeling the joy, the freedom, the excitement, the confidence of what you want… suddenly, the right opportunities, ideas, and people show up. The HOW becomes obvious—or irrelevant.

But if you’re stuck in the “how” loop…

• You overthink.

• You stress.

• You second-guess yourself.

• You drain your energy.

And here’s the kicker: energy attracts energy.

When your vibe is “I can’t figure it out, I’m worried, I don’t know the steps,” guess what shows up? More worry, more blocks, more stress.

When your vibe is “I already have this. I feel it. I’m excited. I’m ready,” guess what shows up? Opportunities. Synchronicities. People and resources that make the HOW magically fall into place.

⚡ Maria Mojo Truth:
You don’t need to know the path. You just need to feel the destination.

Your Mojo Steps to Stop Obsessing & Step Into Energy Alignment

1️⃣ Feel the Outcome First
Close your eyes. Imagine what it feels like to already have what you want. The freedom. The joy. The confidence. Let yourself live there in your mind first, without worrying about the details.

2️⃣ Let the HOW Go
Remind yourself daily: the “how” is not your job. That’s the universe’s job, life’s job, energy’s job. Your job is vibration, energy, feeling aligned.

3️⃣ Take Inspired Action
This isn’t sitting on your couch hoping for magic. This is action that feels good, inspired, and aligned with the energy of your dream. Tiny steps count. Every aligned move amplifies your vibe.

4️⃣ Trust & Let Life Surprise You
Life will show you doors you couldn’t have imagined. People, resources, opportunities—sometimes wild, sometimes unexpected. The more you resist, the less visible they are.

5️⃣ Celebrate Being in Alignment
Even small moments of joy, clarity, or flow are proof that you’re vibrating at the right frequency. Celebrate them like confetti. You’re literally training your energy to attract more of it.

💛 Mojo Wrap-Up:

Stop trying to figure it all out. Stop stressing about the steps. Stop overthinking the HOW.

Start living as if you already have what you want. Step into that energy. Align with it. Move with it. Trust it.

Because when you do, life has no choice but to catch up to you.

You don’t chase it. You become it.

Sending you a big Maria Mojo hug, full of alignment energy and unapologetic joy,
— Maria Lesetz
Your Mindset & Resilience Coach

P.S. If you’re ready to stop obsessing over the HOW and start living in the energy of your dreams, let’s talk. I’ll show you how to align, amplify, and attract the life you deserve—without the stress and overthinking.

🔗 Grab your spot on my calendar by clicking here => I want to let go of the HOW!