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Maria Mojo Mondays: Do You Have a Pet Peeve That Bugs the 💩 Outta You?

(Because even the happiest humans have a few “oh hell no’s”...)

🔥 Mojo Message of the Week

We’ve all got ‘em.

Little things that poke at our peace, ruffle our feathers, or make us want to yell, “Are you serious right now?!”

👉 Pet peeves are part of being human.

But here’s the thing:
You can either let those little annoyances build up and blow your vibe…
Or you can see them for what they really are — a compass pointing to your values, your personality, and your deepest truths.

This week’s edition is about the pivot.
Because life isn’t about avoiding what bugs you — it’s about how you bounce back.

🤪 My Pet Peeves (Yes, even a Yellow like me has a few!)

1️⃣ People who say “I’ll do it!”… and don’t. (Twice.)
🚩 Integrity matters. Just say what you mean and mean what you say.

2️⃣ Half-assed efforts.
💥 Mediocrity? Not in my world. Whole-ass it or don’t bother. 😉

3️⃣ Basic math fails.
🧮 A penny to round up your change shouldn’t feel like magic, folks.

4️⃣ “Love you” with no follow-through.
💛 Love is action. Check-ins. Care. Not just cute words.

5️⃣ Corporate “hands are tied” excuses.
🙅‍♀️ Translation: “We’re avoiding accountability.” Been there. Left that.

6️⃣ Getting dragged into someone else’s drama.
😆 Not my circus. Not my swirl.

7️⃣ Toxic sympathy.
🚫 Don’t dump your fears on someone who’s trying to stay strong.
When I was diagnosed with MS, I chose to see it as a bump in the road — and I’m still here, thriving.

💡 Mojo Pivot: What Pet Peeves Really Reveal

Every time something grates on your nerves, ask:

✅ What value of mine is being stepped on?
✅ What story am I telling myself about this moment?
✅ Is this worth my energy — or can I release it and move on?

Your peace is priceless. Don’t give it away for free.

🎨 Mojo Color Code Insights

Your pet peeves are tied to your core personality color:

🔴 REDs get annoyed when people waste time, lack follow-through, or over-explain.
🔵 BLUEs feel upset when people are inconsiderate, cold, or superficial.
⚪️ WHITEs can’t stand chaos, yelling, or pressure to react quickly.
🟡 YELLOWs lose their minds when things are boring, overly rigid, or joyless.

See how your personality shapes your triggers?
Now imagine using that awareness to reclaim your power in every situation.

Mojo Mindset Tips: How to Stay Centered When the World Pushes Your Buttons

1️⃣ Give yourself 90 seconds to feel the annoyance — then breathe it out.
Don't build a whole narrative around something that won’t matter tomorrow.

2️⃣ Ask: “Will this still bother me next week?” If not, don’t waste another ounce of energy on it.

3️⃣ Reframe the moment:
Instead of “Why is this happening to me?” try “What is this showing me about myself?”

4️⃣ Get playful:
Imagine narrating the moment like it’s a sitcom.
Your barista messes up your name for the 5th time? You’re the star of your own episode — laugh and roll with it.

💬 Mojo Community Prompt

What’s one of YOUR biggest pet peeves — and what does it say about your core values?
Hit reply and tell me! I’d love to read yours (and maybe feature a few in a future edition!)

🚀 Ready to Dive Deeper into Your Color Code?

Curious what your biggest pet peeves, your leadership style, and your next career move all have in common?

Then let’s connect 1-on-1 for a Color Code Power Session — a 75-minute deep dive into your core personality, blind spots, and next-stage strategy.

This isn’t just a personality test — it’s a personalized map to your unique mojo and what will help you to thrive in this world that sometimes feels like it is falling apart.

💥 It’s fun. It’s insightful. It’s so you.

👉 Just hit reply and say “Send me the link!” and we’ll get you booked in —
or you can just click here to book your session and grab a time that works for you!

💛 Your Final Mojo Boost

You can’t control the chaos around you.
But you can absolutely control how you respond to it.
And that, my friend, is your superpower.

Let the small stuff stay small — and keep your mojo where it belongs… right at the center of your amazing, aligned life.

See you next week —
With less swirl, more sparkle. 😉

Your Mindset & Resilience Coach,
— Maria Lesetz 💛